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Statutory School Age Children and Young People

Strategies to support children in care at school

Designated Teachers play a vital role as a safe adult, advocate, and guide for children in care. A trauma-informed, attachment-aware approach not only supports these pupils to learn and thrive, but also creates a classroom culture that is compassionate and inclusive for all

1. Building Positive Relationships

With Young People:

  • Prioritise connection before correction: Children in care may have disrupted attachments. Focus first on relationships, not behaviour management.
  • Consistent, warm adult presence: Be a predictable, nurturing adult. Greet each student by name daily. Use calm, friendly tones.
  • Emotionally attuned communication: Reflect and validate emotions: "You look upset - do you want to talk or have some quiet time?"
  • High warmth, high expectations: Balance nurture and structure. Offer encouragement while maintaining clear, gentle boundaries.
  • Personalised attention: Learn about the child's interests and talents to help build trust and identity.

With Carers and Social Workers:

  • Open communication channels: Share successes, not just concerns. Use respectful, jargon-free language.
  • Regular updates and check-ins: Provide timely feedback about academic and emotional progress.
  • Respect lived experience: Recognise that carers often know the child well. Collaborate, don't instruct.
  • Involve in transitions and planning: Include carers and social workers in meetings around support plans, PEPs, and school transitions.

2. Creating a Safe and Secure Classroom

Emotional Safety:

  • Predictable routines: Timetables, visual cues, and consistent language reduce anxiety and build trust.
  • Flexible response to distress: Offer safe spaces (e.g., calm corners), time-out cards, or movement breaks.
  • No shame-based discipline: Avoid exclusion, sarcasm, or public corrections. Use restorative approaches when harm occurs.

Physical Safety:

  • Classroom layout and supervision: Ensure children can always see the adult and feel secure in their physical space.
  • Sensory considerations: Be aware of triggers like noise, touch, and lighting. Offer tools (ear defenders, fiddle toys) where appropriate.

3. Reflective and Curious Teaching Practice

  • See behaviour as communication: Ask "What is this child telling me?" rather than "What is wrong with them?"
  • Maintain professional curiosity: Be open to the unseen causes of behaviours: attachment disruption, grief, fear, or shame.
  • Ongoing professional development: Attend trauma-informed, attachment-focused training. Share learning with colleagues.
  • Use supervision and peer reflection: Regularly reflect with safeguarding leads or school counsellors to prevent burnout and bias.

4. Teaching Approaches that Support Regulation and Learning

  • Co-regulation first: Help children calm before expecting them to learn. Offer grounding activities and connection.
  • Emotion coaching: Teach language for feelings and model self-regulation: "I'm feeling frustrated too. Let's take a breath together."
  • Build in success: Design learning that allows early wins and celebrates progress, not just attainment.
  • Adapted academic expectations: Understand that emotional needs may impact learning. Allow catch-up time and scaffolding.
  • Use relational repair: When things go wrong, gently repair the relationship: "I'm sorry that was hard today. I'm still here for you."

5. Whole-School Consistency and Advocacy

  • Whole-school ethos: Ensure all staff understand trauma-informed, attachment-aware principles. Be a model for this in action.
  • Advocate for the child: Be their voice in staff meetings, PEPs, and review processes.
  • Transition support: Pay extra attention to changes in school year, class, or placement. Plan them with care and inclusion.
  • Celebrate identity and resilience: Help children in care build positive self-identity. Celebrate strengths, cultural background, and milestones.

6. Understanding SEN and Speech, Language & Communication Needs (SLCN)

Many Children in Care (CiC) have underlying or undiagnosed SEN, particularly in the areas of speech, language and communication, social interaction, emotional regulation, and executive functioning. A trauma-informed and attachment-aware approach must also consider how these needs intersect with developmental trauma and disrupted attachment.

 Key Considerations:

  • High incidence of need: A disproportionate number of CiC have SLCN or neurodevelopmental conditions like ADHD, autism, or specific learning difficulties.
  • Overlap with trauma: Behaviours linked to trauma (e.g. hypervigilance, avoidance, shutdown) can mask or mimic SEN.
  • Late or missed diagnoses: Children entering care often have gaps in their assessment history. Referrals may be delayed or lost through placement moves.

Suitable for Reception to Year 11

Age Range

Key Strategy Examples

Reception-KS1

Use visual timetables, story-based emotion learning, sensory tools, soft toys or comfort items, co-regulation with trusted adults.

KS2

Peer relationship coaching, emotion vocabulary building, calm spaces, predictable consequences, mentoring schemes.

KS3-KS4

Identity work, positive reinforcement systems, 1:1 check-ins, reflective conversations, support with exams and future planning


 

 

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