Statutory School Age Children and Young People
Strategies to support children in care at school
Designated Teachers play a vital role as a safe adult, advocate, and guide for children in care. A trauma-informed, attachment-aware approach not only supports these pupils to learn and thrive, but also creates a classroom culture that is compassionate and inclusive for all
1. Building Positive Relationships
With Young People:
- Prioritise connection before correction: Children in care may have disrupted attachments. Focus first on relationships, not behaviour management.
- Consistent, warm adult presence: Be a predictable, nurturing adult. Greet each student by name daily. Use calm, friendly tones.
- Emotionally attuned communication: Reflect and validate emotions: "You look upset - do you want to talk or have some quiet time?"
- High warmth, high expectations: Balance nurture and structure. Offer encouragement while maintaining clear, gentle boundaries.
- Personalised attention: Learn about the child's interests and talents to help build trust and identity.
With Carers and Social Workers:
- Open communication channels: Share successes, not just concerns. Use respectful, jargon-free language.
- Regular updates and check-ins: Provide timely feedback about academic and emotional progress.
- Respect lived experience: Recognise that carers often know the child well. Collaborate, don't instruct.
- Involve in transitions and planning: Include carers and social workers in meetings around support plans, PEPs, and school transitions.
2. Creating a Safe and Secure Classroom
Emotional Safety:
- Predictable routines: Timetables, visual cues, and consistent language reduce anxiety and build trust.
- Flexible response to distress: Offer safe spaces (e.g., calm corners), time-out cards, or movement breaks.
- No shame-based discipline: Avoid exclusion, sarcasm, or public corrections. Use restorative approaches when harm occurs.
Physical Safety:
- Classroom layout and supervision: Ensure children can always see the adult and feel secure in their physical space.
- Sensory considerations: Be aware of triggers like noise, touch, and lighting. Offer tools (ear defenders, fiddle toys) where appropriate.
3. Reflective and Curious Teaching Practice
- See behaviour as communication: Ask "What is this child telling me?" rather than "What is wrong with them?"
- Maintain professional curiosity: Be open to the unseen causes of behaviours: attachment disruption, grief, fear, or shame.
- Ongoing professional development: Attend trauma-informed, attachment-focused training. Share learning with colleagues.
- Use supervision and peer reflection: Regularly reflect with safeguarding leads or school counsellors to prevent burnout and bias.
4. Teaching Approaches that Support Regulation and Learning
- Co-regulation first: Help children calm before expecting them to learn. Offer grounding activities and connection.
- Emotion coaching: Teach language for feelings and model self-regulation: "I'm feeling frustrated too. Let's take a breath together."
- Build in success: Design learning that allows early wins and celebrates progress, not just attainment.
- Adapted academic expectations: Understand that emotional needs may impact learning. Allow catch-up time and scaffolding.
- Use relational repair: When things go wrong, gently repair the relationship: "I'm sorry that was hard today. I'm still here for you."
5. Whole-School Consistency and Advocacy
- Whole-school ethos: Ensure all staff understand trauma-informed, attachment-aware principles. Be a model for this in action.
- Advocate for the child: Be their voice in staff meetings, PEPs, and review processes.
- Transition support: Pay extra attention to changes in school year, class, or placement. Plan them with care and inclusion.
- Celebrate identity and resilience: Help children in care build positive self-identity. Celebrate strengths, cultural background, and milestones.
6. Understanding SEN and Speech, Language & Communication Needs (SLCN)
Many Children in Care (CiC) have underlying or undiagnosed SEN, particularly in the areas of speech, language and communication, social interaction, emotional regulation, and executive functioning. A trauma-informed and attachment-aware approach must also consider how these needs intersect with developmental trauma and disrupted attachment.
Key Considerations:
- High incidence of need: A disproportionate number of CiC have SLCN or neurodevelopmental conditions like ADHD, autism, or specific learning difficulties.
- Overlap with trauma: Behaviours linked to trauma (e.g. hypervigilance, avoidance, shutdown) can mask or mimic SEN.
- Late or missed diagnoses: Children entering care often have gaps in their assessment history. Referrals may be delayed or lost through placement moves.
Suitable for Reception to Year 11
Age Range | Key Strategy Examples |
Reception-KS1 | Use visual timetables, story-based emotion learning, sensory tools, soft toys or comfort items, co-regulation with trusted adults. |
KS2 | Peer relationship coaching, emotion vocabulary building, calm spaces, predictable consequences, mentoring schemes. |
KS3-KS4 | Identity work, positive reinforcement systems, 1:1 check-ins, reflective conversations, support with exams and future planning |
